How do you wake up and suddenly stop loving your spouse, how does love suddenly disappear

  • April 4, 2021
  • Culture
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“How do you wake up and suddenly stop loving your spouse, how does love suddenly disappear?”

It’s the Question many don’t get so they conclude you must be unfair, wicked and maybe needing an excuse to be with another.

But love doesn’t suddenly disappear, it takes time and for some, the love did not disappear, they just realised it was never there.

Here are some of the common reasons and triggers:

  • Physical assault
  • Emotional assault
  • Lack of attention
  • Lack of care
  • Loss of value
  • Change in life direction
  • Sex
  • Repeat crushing and belittling
  • Extramarital affairs
  • Realities of polygyny
  • Overblown expectations
  • Underachievement
  • Third party influence

There are many more and things can be made better but the first question you need to answer is if you want to remain and try or move on away from the marriage.

Whichever you decide, seek professional help with it as it is quite complex to deal with.

Shamsideen Giwa

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